Have Toy – Will Play

Boys have their toys – electronic gadgets and PS2 and girls have their own – Toy boys. I must admit though I don’t have one of my own yet at the rate things are progressing I guess I will by the next decade or so. But the concept of toy boys fascinates me.

Maybe it has to do with seeing the hot older women like Demi Moore, 40, and Madonna, 45, happy with 25 year old Ashton Kutcher and 35 year old Guy Ritchie, respectively. But the phenomenon isn’t restricted to Hollywood or Wisteria Lane. It’s everywhere around us, even on this tiny island.

What is it that attracts older women to younger men and vice versa? Is it the promise of eternal youth when you drink from the fountain of life (pun unintended)?

Once single women hit the big 4-0, they are pretty happy with their lifestyles and seldom want a man their age or even older upsetting their well balanced apple cart. A younger man on the other hand will not only help managing the apple cart but might even make apple strudel out of it (if that’s what you want).

To a younger man, a relationship with an older woman is like his favourite fantasy come true. Most men have had a secret crush on their grade V teacher and this relationship, in some form, is a realisation of that fantasy. For them it’s a win - win situation. They get to hangout with their buddies, date other people, don’t have to splurge on dates to make a gesture, don’t have to wait for hours while their dates dress up and they also get experience in areas that might be important later on.

It’s a win - win situation for older women as well. They are well set in their ways by this age and the younger man doesn’t want to change that, they aren’t usually looking for something permanent and this suits both the parties just fine. They think your wrinkles are actually cute and are not afraid to venture into places men twice their age might think thrice about. And you gotta admit that well kept, tight, derriere has its advantages. Plus toy boys love washing your hair, massaging your feet, getting the dry cleaning sorted, taking out the garbage and love making dinner for you as well. And of course they can open tight jars and kill cockroaches to boot.

So if you are a successful, smart, single, slightly mature woman a good looking, eager to please, young man might be right up your alley- all you need to do is open your minds to the endless possibilities.